Being a student is tough – deadlines, exams, group projects, and remembering to eat something besides instant noodles, baked beans on the whitest of toast and endless batches of pesto pasta. Now, add nappies, night feeds, and tiny humans into the mix – it’s a whole different level.
If you’re a young parent in school, college, or university in Scotland, first of all: you’re smashing it. Balancing a baby and books isn’t easy, but it is possible – especially with the right support around you.
“Can I even stay in school or go to university if I have a baby?”
Absolutely. Education providers in Scotland are encouraged to support young parents and help you stay on track with your goals – whether that’s finishing high school or getting a degree. Schools, colleges, and universities all have ways to be flexible with your schedule, coursework, and attendance.
If you’re under 16 and still in school, your school and local authority should work with you to make sure you can keep learning in a way that suits your situation. That might include part-time learning, support from pupil support staff, or learning from home for a while after your baby arrives.
Most colleges and universities in Scotland have student support teams who get it. They can help you figure out timetables, exam arrangements, and even childcare options.
Childcare: Who’s got your back?
Worried about juggling lectures with baby care? Scotland’s got your back here too.
- Funded Early Learning and Childcare: If your child is 2 or older, and you meet certain criteria (like being on certain benefits or if your child is care-experienced), you may be entitled to 1,140 hours per year of free childcare. That’s roughly 30 hours per week during term time. Check your eligibility with your local council.
- College and University Childcare Funds: Many colleges and universities have specific funds that help student parents cover childcare costs. Chat to your student services or funding office to see what’s available.
Your Mental Health Matters
Being a student parent can feel isolating, especially if your mates are out at freshers’ week while you’re up at 3am doing bottle feeds. That’s why looking after your mental health is so important.
You’re not alone – and you don’t have to pretend you’ve got it all together.
- See Me Scotland is doing great work to break the stigma around mental health, especially for young people and parents.
- Your school, college, or university may have a counsellor or mental health support worker you can talk to.
- Parenting groups and peer support networks are amazing for meeting other young parents who get it.
Where to Get Help and Advice
Here are some amazing organisations and resources for young parents in education:
- One Parent Families Scotland (OPFS)
- Family Nurse Partnership (if you’re under 20 and pregnant with your first baby)
- SAAS – Funding for Students
- Scottish Government – Best Start Grants
Final Word: You’ve Got This
Balancing study and parenting is no joke. But remember, it’s not about doing everything perfectly – it’s about doing your best, one day at a time. Whether you’re smashing coursework during nap time or showing up for class on two hours of sleep, you’re doing something incredible. Be proud of yourself.
So, keep going. Ask for help. Use the support out there. And remember: your dreams don’t stop just because you’ve got a baby bag (and potentially some baby spew) on your shoulder.