That's Not OK

No matter what your relationship is with someone, you should be treated with kindness and respect. Know how to spot the signs that something isn’t right and say “That’s Not OK”. Developed in partnership with Rape Crisis Scotland and Scottish Women’s Aid.

Content Warning: These articles & links mention domestic abuse, violence, sexual abuse and controlling behaviour, which may be upsetting for some readers.

Find out more about the various different forms of what is known as ‘gender-based violence’ below.

Scenarios

All ages

Coercive Control

If your boyfriend or girlfriend expects me you to answer their messages straight away and asks who you’re talking to,…

Coercive Control
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Forced Marriage

“My parents have started to pressure me to think about getting married.” Find out more forced marriage and where to…

Forced Marriage
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What Is Gaslighting?

You might have heard the phrase gaslighting before, here is all you need to know on what it means.

What Is Gaslighting?
All ages

Microaggressions

Information for young people in Scotland about dealing with microaggressions as a form of harassment.

Microaggressions
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Information on Where to Get Support

Experiencing rape, sexual assault, exploitation or image-based abuse can affect people in many different ways. Find out where you can…

Information on Where to Get Support
All ages

Consent

Whether you’re in a relationship with someone or not, consent is key. So what is consent and how do people…

Consent
All ages

Practical Relationship Tips

Here’s how to try and improve relationships of all kinds through respect, co-operation and trust from everyone involved.

Practical Relationship Tips

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Staying Safe On Nights Out

If you’re at uni or college you’ll likely end up going on a night out or two while you’re there.

Staying Safe On Nights Out
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Young Scot Safety

Here you’ll find out how to report crimes and how to get the best support you deserve if you are…

Young Scot Safety
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Sextortion: What It Is & How to Get Support

Learn about the crimes related to sextortion, and the steps to take if you or someone you know is being…

Sextortion: What It Is & How to Get Support
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SDS Results Helpline

Are you worried, nervous, or not sure what to do about your results? Skills Development Scotland has a results helpline…

SDS Results Helpline
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