What does ‘Non-Binary’ mean?

Most people are labelled male or female at birth. But that label doesn’t work for everyone. Some people don’t feel like just a boy or a girl – some feel like both, neither or somewhere in between.

That’s where non-binary comes in!

It’s a word some people use to describe their gender identity if they don’t fit neatly into “male” or “female”. And you know what? It’s totally okay if someone’s gender doesn’t match what they were told at birth.

Other gender identities some people might use include:

  • Agender – No gender
  • Genderfluid – When your gender can change
  • Bigender – Two genders

Want to learn more? Check out our full list of gender identity terms here.

Challenges Non-Binary people face

Non-binary people often face unique challenges, including:

  • Discrimination or bullying (online and in real life)
  • Not being recognised legally (like on forms or passports)
  • Struggling to get healthcare that meets their needs

International Non-Binary People’s Day

International Non-Binary People’s Day is celebrated every year on the 14th July. It’s a day to recognise and raise awareness of the diverse identities and experiences of non-binary people around the world.

The date falls right between International Women’s Day (8th March) and International Men’s Day (19th November). It’s the perfect reminder that not everyone fits into the boxes of just male or female.

What’s happening in Scotland?

In 2023, the Scottish Government created a Non-Binary Equality Action Plan. This means they are working on:

  • Making schools and workplaces more inclusive
  • Changing forms and official documents to recognise non-binary identities
  • More education and training for professionals

This is a big step forward but there’s still more to do.

How to Be an Ally

You don’t have to be non-binary to celebrate Non-Binary Awareness Day. Here are some ways to show support:

  • Use respectful language. Ask for and use the correct pronouns
  • Learn more. Read books or watch videos by non-binary creators
  • Engage and share stories on social media that uplift non-binary voices
  • Speak up when you hear disrespect or misinformation
  • Wear yellow, white, purple, or black – the colours of the non-binary pride flag!

Being non-binary is just one way to be yourself and everyone deserves to feel seen and supported. Remember: There’s no “right” way to be non-binary. All identities are valid and everyone deserves respect.

Need support or want to learn more?

LGBT Youth Scotland is Scotland’s national charity for LGBTQI+ young people aged 13-25. Find out more about the work they do here.

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