That's Not OK Scenarios

Do any of these situations sound familiar? Click on the scenarios to find out why that's not OK.

Content developed in partnership with Rape Crisis Scotland and Scottish Women's Aid.

Content Warning: These articles & links mention domestic abuse, violence, sexual abuse and controlling behaviour, which may be upsetting for some readers.

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Experiencing rape, sexual assault, exploitation or image-based abuse can affect people in many different ways. Find out where you can get support.

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Sexual Assault and Rape

"Someone had sex with me or did other sexual things with me (or tried to), when I didn’t want them to."

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Sexual Exploitation

"Someone got me to do sexual things with other people in exchange for something."

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Sexual Harassment

"Someone has said things to me or about me of a sexual nature that made me feel uncomfortable."

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Someone Shared Your Private Photo Without Consent

"Someone has shared pictures/nudes/videos of me that were only meant for someone else."

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Feeling Pressured to Share Nudes

"Someone has pressured me to send pics/videos of myself naked."

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Being Shown Unwanted Sexual Images

"Someone sent me or made me look at a sexual picture or video (including pornography) and I didn’t want them to."

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Physical Violence

"My partner slapped me during an argument."

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Coercive Control

"My partner wants to talk to me on the phone all day and night and demands to know who else I have been speaking to."

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Financial Abuse

"One of our parents doesn't let the other buy things we need, like food or things for the house"

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Forced Marriage

"My parents have started to pressure me to think about getting married. I don’t want to because I’m not ready. But I’m afraid to say no."

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Verbal Abuse

"My partner calls me horrible names like 'slut' or accuses me of cheating if I talk to someone else."

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Coercive Control in LGBTQIA+ Relationships

"My partner is threatening to out my sexuality/gender identity."

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Honour Based Abuse

"My family has said I have brought shame to our name because I talk to boys at school and/or aren't getting good enough grades"

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Stalking

"I keep being contacted by someone"

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Physical Abuse

"My parent hurt me"

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How to Support a Friend

"My friend is going through this - I want to help but I don’t know how."

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Worried About a Friends' Behaviour

"I'm worried about my friends behaviour and the way they're treating their partner."

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Visit the That's Not OK page for information about sexual and physical violence, verbal abuse and more.
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Talking to Someone About What Happened

If you decide to talk to someone about what has happened to you, here's some information on how to get started.

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